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Did you know that speaking before a group is the "No. 1" fear among most people?  In fact, they would rather die (the "No. 2" fear) than speak!  Pamela has been speaking since 1980 and loves it!  She is a popular conference and retreat speaker in demand across the country and into Canada!  Pam served on the teaching staff of CLASS for 17 years where she taught and led a small group, personally assisted and traveled with Florence Littauer.  Pamela is a contributing author to several books, including: "Getting Along with Almost Anybody" by Florence; "Bounce Back" by Diana James, "Intimate Moments with God" compiled by Linda Evans Shepherd, and in October of 2006 "Refined by Fire:Discovering Victory Through Adversity" compiled by Crystal Obey. Pamela's speaking ministry began shortly after she accepted the position of Teaching Director,  teaching every Tuesday morning at Community Bible Study, a nationally known organization in the mountain community where she lived.  She loved teaching and seeing the Lord change lives!


Are you looking for a speaker who is sparkling, warm, transparent, compassionate and shares from her heart?  Those who have heard Pamela say she is all that and more!  Pam sees the humor in the tough places of life and communicates the lessons she has learned from them.


Pamela is a Certified Personality Consultant and can help you understand the reasons we are the way we are, and accept the differences of other personalites.  Pam and Bob have made some changes recently.  Pam and Bob are enjoying living in Bella Vista, Arkansas (right at the Missouri border).  They have found a wonderful church, Fellowship Bible of Northwest Arkansas, which makes them feel right at home!  They have led a community group together and Pam has been involved in the Beth Moore Bible Studies there as a small group leader, as well as co-leading the Morning Quest Studies on Wednesday mornings. Pam has just recorded a lesson for the "Draw Near" series (a 50 day Challenge) for the ladies Tuesday studies, on Rest and Solitude.  Pam and seven others have been writing devotionals for Fellowship's website, http://women.fellowshipnwa.org/Devotionals/DevotionaloftheWeek/tabid/1277/Default.aspx  You can subscribe and get them emailed to you!   Pam is currently a discussion leader at the BSF class in Rogers, AR. where they are studying the gospel of John--it is a great study!  Pam also loves her Writer's Group in Bella Vista!   After many years in California, they are loving life in NW Arkansas!      


Whether it's the topic of friendships, life's daily dramas, coping with the unexpected, prioritizing, family relationships, or Bible study, Pam can meet the needs of your group!  Don't miss her next presentation!   


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 To view my blog,   (http://pamelastephens.wordpress.com.)  Where you see my latest entries!

Road Signs Along the Way
Who Can Resist a Puddle?  
The Rafting Adventure
How's Your Outlook?
The Tree God Plants
The Safety Pin

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Road Signs Along the Way

By Pamela Stephens

“Teach me your way, O Lord, and I will walk in your truth; give me an undivided heart that I may fear your name.  I will praise you, O Lord my God with all my heart.  I will glorify your name forever.”  Psalm 86:11-12
 

Have you ever noticed that road signs remind you of life itself?  A couple years ago, we were taking photos inside all the Arkansas Campgrounds, which took about 8 months.   Going down the road in our motorhome sometimes I get bored, just sitting!  I like multi-tasking!    Sometimes I am reading, sometimes I am crocheting, but sometimes I am lost in a daydream…others I am “observing” the signs of life!

  • “Wrong Way” or “Do not enter”… are important signs when driving a 38’ motorhome! You really could end up where you don’t belong!  A one-way road is definitely hazardous! 
  • “Watch for Falling Rocks!”—And what will you do if you see them falling…hey, good one..I’d give that a 7.5!  Yes, these could really damage our traveling home!
  • “Dangerous Curves Ahead”—they are not talking about mine!  Curves are tricky in a stretch limo and most certainly in a 38’ motorhome!
  • “Yield Right of Way”—to whom?  Oh that 53’ semi truck barreling down the lane we are trying to enter!       Yes that is a good thing to do!
  • “Turn Lights on Next 5 miles”—is it dark for the next 5 miles?  Are there drivers ahead that are worse than the ones we’ve dealt with so far?  Well then what about the rest of our trip?
  • “Run Away Ramp”—is this a ramp that is rebellious?  Just how does a ramp run away? And why?  Is this the ramp I take when I want to run away? 

It put me in mind of a book I had read quite some time ago, Milo and the Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster.   Perhaps you’ve read it too!  It was a fun read with tongue in cheek humor.  But it absolutely had so many real truths about life!

  There were some very strange destinations!   A sign along the road said “Welcome to Expectations!”—We’ve all been there haven’t we?  “Expectations -- the place you must always go to before you get to where you are going.  Of course, some people never go beyond expectations!”   (Yes, made that trip a few times!!)

Or, “The Doldrums” was another area along this highway!  “The Doldrums are where nothing ever happens and nothing ever changes…where it’s  unlawful  to think, think of thinking, surmise, presume, reason, meditate, or speculate; where the daily schedule consists of: daydreaming, napping, dawdle, delay, linger, loiter, put off to tomorrows, loaf, lounge, dillydally with almost no time left for brooding, lagging, plodding or procrastinating!”  (I’ve seen some teenagers spend quite a bit of time in this section.)

Perhaps “Dictionopolis” would be more to your liking?  “A happy kingdom advantageously located in the Foothills of Confusion; caressed by gentle breezes from the Sea of knowledge, where the ‘word market’ does business and the Ministers Cabinet consists of the Duke of Definition, the Minister of Meaning, the Earl of Essence, the Count of Connotation, and the Undersecretary of Understanding.  In Dictionopolis you can pick fresh if’s, and’s, and but’s and get ripe when’s and where’s—juicy words for sale!”  (This is a writer’s heaven!)

What about a visit to the “City of Reality”? Or to the “City of Illusions?”  In the latter, there are “mirages- things that aren’t really there that you can see very clearly—often easier to see than things that are!” (Yes, that sounds very familiar!)

Or then there is the “Island of Conclusion”…so “how did we get here? You jumped, of course!—that’s the way most people get here…every time you decide something without having a good reason, you jump to Conclusions whether you like It or not.  It’s such an easy trip, I’ve been here hundreds of times, but getting back isn’t so easy.”   (Once you jump there is no return!)

I sense the quietness I haven’t heard for awhile, and realize we have stopped for a break.  My husband asks why I’ve been so silent and where I’ve been:   ”Oh, first the Doldrums, the City of Illusions, where I jumped to the Island of Conclusions…and all the while I’ve been right here the whole time!”  He looked at me pretty funny, but then dismissed it…he knows me!  What “signs” have you seen this week?


 

Reflect and Respond:

  1. Yield Right Away—do we “yield” to God’s will?  Do we “yield” our rights even when we are right?
  2. Have you ignored the signs that say “Do not enter” or “Wrong Way?”  How can we make a U-turn back in the right spiritual direction?
  3. Have you ever wanted God to send down a beacon when you were confused?  “Turn lights on next 5 miles!”
  4. What “sign” would be appropriate for the path you are on right now?  “Watch for slow movers”?  “Dangerous intersection”?  “Dead End?”   “Yield Right of Way?”  “Slow down for Children?”

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